Surviving Summer 2020 as a Black Mother

I see my children, my mouthy but smart daughter who has the most extensive vocabulary for a 5 year old, and my rambunctious but charmingly persistent son, who will climb and fall until he falls no more. I worry about how they will be perceived in the world. When you’re black, your skin tends to show before your qualities do. Being black is the first impression. It is your descriptor. You are your best friend’s black friend. You are the smartest black kid in your class. You are the black girl in the office. You are always black before you are anything else. Not my rules, but society’s.

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6 Accountability Questions to Ask Yourself - Quarantined With Babies Week 3

Answering these questions was a therapeutic exercise for me, and I thought it relevant, and appropriate to include in this mini blog series, “Quarantine With Babies.” Gratefulness, connection, adjusting expectations, going outdoors, physical activity, and creativity are important players in this quarantine life. To me, they are more so accountability questions, and gentle reminders of ways to be at peace during this time.

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New Challenges - Quarantined with Babies Week 1

It’s been a week of adjustment, with the influx of many new challenges. I can’t tell you if this has been a successful week or not, but it happened, and it’s mostly done. We’ve never been through anything quite like this, so how should one judge his or her parenting during this time…

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Celebrating Our Skin Through Reading - Sulwe

Sulwe is an exceptional introduction to colorism. Books help us to understand. Books help us to frame problems. Through books we relate to others. Sulwe does all of those things in such a beautiful way. I seriously am so moved by the book, that I often think I enjoy reading it more than Bella does.

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